Direct Messaging
Direct Messaging
Direct messages (DMs) let you have private conversations with your connections. Build relationships, collaborate, and communicate one-on-one.
Accessing Messages
From Navigation
- Click Messages in the sidebar
- View your conversation list
- Click any conversation to open
From a Profile
- View a connected maker's profile
- Click Message button
- Opens conversation (creates one if new)
The Messages Interface
Layout
┌─────────────────────────────────────────────────┐
│ CONVERSATIONS │ ACTIVE CHAT │
│ │ │
│ [Person 1] . │ Person 1 │
│ "Last message.." │ ───────────────────────── │
│ │ │
│ [Person 2] │ Their message │
│ "Last message.." │ │
│ │ Your message │
│ [Person 3] │ │
│ "Last message.." │ Their message │
│ │ │
│ │ ───────────────────────── │
│ │ [Type a message...] Send │
└─────────────────────────────────────────────────┘Conversation List
Shows all your conversations:
- Profile picture — Who you're chatting with
- Name — Their display name
- Last message — Preview of recent message
- Time — When last message was sent
- Unread indicator — Dot for unread messages
Active Chat
Shows the selected conversation:
- Message history
- Their messages on left
- Your messages on right
- Timestamps on messages
- Compose area at bottom
Sending Messages
Starting a New Conversation
- Go to Messages
- Find the person in your connections list
- Click to open conversation
- Type your message
- Press Enter or click Send
Continuing a Conversation
- Click on existing conversation
- Type in compose area
- Send your message
Message Features
| Feature | How |
|---|---|
| Text | Just type |
| Line breaks | Shift + Enter |
| Send | Enter or click button |
Real-Time Messaging
Live Updates
Messages appear instantly:
- No need to refresh
- Messages sync across devices
- Powered by Supabase Realtime
Managing Conversations
Finding Conversations
Search:
- Use search to find specific people
- Search by name or username
Sort:
- Conversations sorted by most recent activity
- New messages bring conversation to top
Unread Messages
- Unread conversations show a dot
- Count shown in navigation badge
- Click to mark as read
Notifications
New message notifications appear via:
- Bell icon in sidebar (desktop) or header (mobile)
- Unread count badge on Messages in sidebar
Messaging Best Practices
Response Times
| Their Availability | Expected Response |
|---|---|
| Open to Connect | Within hours to a day |
| Limited | May take a few days |
| Varies | Check their activity |
Good Messaging Etiquette
Do:
| Practice | Why |
|---|---|
| Respond in reasonable time | Shows respect |
| Be concise and clear | Easier to read |
| Ask specific questions | Gets better answers |
| Share value before asking favors | Builds goodwill |
Don't:
| Avoid | Why |
|---|---|
| Send multiple messages if no reply | Comes across as pushy |
| Write essays in single messages | Hard to read |
| Be pushy or demanding | Damages relationship |
| Share sensitive info carelessly | Security risk |
Effective Messages
Good first message:
Hi [Name]!
I noticed you're building in the developer tools space—
I'm working on something similar. Would love to hear
about your journey and maybe share notes.
What's been your biggest challenge so far?Following up:
Hey! Just wanted to follow up on our chat last week.
Did you end up trying that approach we discussed?
Also, I found this resource that might help: [link]When to Use DMs
| Use DMs for | Use Public Posts for |
|---|---|
| Private discussions | Public questions |
| Sensitive topics | Community discussions |
| One-on-one collaboration | Sharing with everyone |
| Personal introductions | General announcements |
| Following up on public conversations | Initial outreach to group |
Privacy & Safety
Your Messages Are Private
- Only you and the recipient can see messages
- Messages are stored securely
- No public visibility
Staying Safe
Be cautious of:
- Requests for personal information
- Financial requests or investments
- Links from unknown sources
- Pressure to take action quickly
If concerned:
- Stop responding
- Report if necessary
- Block if available
Tips for Makers
Building Relationships Through DMs
| Step | Action |
|---|---|
| 1 | Start with value — Share something helpful |
| 2 | Be curious — Ask genuine questions |
| 3 | Follow up — Check in periodically |
| 4 | Offer help — Don't just ask for things |
| 5 | Be patient — Relationships take time |
Collaboration Via DMs
For working together:
- Establish shared goals
- Define communication frequency
- Be responsive and reliable
- Move to other tools if needed (video calls, etc.)
- Keep each other updated on progress
Troubleshooting
Messages Not Sending
| Issue | Solution |
|---|---|
| Check connection | Verify internet |
| Refresh page | Clear cache |
| Try again | Retry sending |
Not Seeing New Messages
| Issue | Solution |
|---|---|
| Stale page | Refresh browser |
| Notifications | Check settings |
| Session | Ensure logged in |
Can't Message Someone
| Reason | Solution |
|---|---|
| Not connected | Send connection request first |
| Request pending | Wait for acceptance |
| Blocked | Cannot message |
Next Steps
- Subscription & Billing — Upgrade your account
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